There is no greater symbolic measure of a man's masculinity than the size of his penis. If someone is a big shot at work, they're referred to as a "big swinging dick." In recent years, the term "big dick energy" has emerged in the lexicon to describe men with a raw, ineffable charisma. A big dick is something men are taught to want from a young age—in both the porn they watch and the cultural messaging they internalize. But in the real world, having a massive member isn't entirely positive. It comes with its own burdens and discomforts. It turns out there is such a thing as too big when it comes to sex, and people gossiping about your manhood can be demeaning and objectifying. For Black men, having a reputation for having a large penis can carry with it hurtful racial connotations. For our new series on The Secret Lives of Men, Esquire spoke to T, a 19-year-old, Nigerian-British university student, about the weight he carries between his legs and the downside to having what every man thinks he wants. |
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